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Review of To Believe in Women: What Lesbians
Have Done for America — a
History (Houghton Mifflin, $30.00).
Although still popular with the general public,
the traditional genre of
heroic biography has fallen into disrepute among
academics over the past
several decades. The careers of men of action —
generals, politicians,
explorers, entrepreneurs — are no longer deemed
respectable historical
dissertation topics. Famous authors do, sometimes,
still merit books by
literature professors, but we are more likely to
learn from such books
about, say, the deleterious social or linguistic
"negotiations" of
Shakespearean England than about the nature of
Shakespeare's literary
achievement. Generally speaking, heroes are out,
and victims are in.
Or, if we are to judge by Lillian Faderman's
curious new book, it's still
possible for academic scholars to salute heroes —
so long as they were
victims, too.
Faderman is herself something of a hero to many
contemporary academics —
she was recently hailed as a "pioneer of lesbian
studies" in the Chronicle
of Higher Education — and the publication of
her already much-praised
History of What Lesbians Have Done for
America reveals a great deal about
what passes for heroism in the academy today.
After a brief stint early
in her career writing about ethnic minorities
(which she later described
as "compensation for wanting to write about
lesbians"), Faderman, a
lesbian, has spent most of the last
quarter-century writing about
"women-loving women," about women, that is, like
herself. Her previous
books, with revealing titles such as
Surpassing the Love of Men, have
flattered lesbians present and past in their
insistence that there is
something noble in same-sex love among women, and
she has won virtually
every laurel the ever-growing gay and lesbian
studies community has to
offer, from the relatively obscure "Paul
Monette/Roger Horwitz" and
"Lambda" awards to the American Library
Association's "Best Lesbian/Gay
Books of Year" prize (twice). Faderman has not
yet won major acclaim from
the "straight" academic community, but the
enthusiastic reception already
accorded her ambitious new work hints that such
accolades will be soon
forthcoming. For better or worse, the complete
works of Lillian Faderman,
until now known only to lesbian-studies majors,
may soon be coming to a
required-freshman-core-class catalogue near you.
Gay pride, meet
History 101.
Faderman's latest book aims high: she has set out
to break new ground in
the historiography of the American women's rights
movement by zeroing in
on "how certain late nineteenth- and early
twentieth-century women whose
lives can be described as lesbian were in the
forefront of the battle to
procure the rights and privileges that large
numbers of Americans enjoy
today."
Say that again? Women "whose lives can be
described as lesbian"? Did
they describe themselves as lesbians? Well, no.
Nor did these "lesbians"
necessarily have "sexual relationships
with...women." But, Faderman
insists, "that term used as an adjective
accurately describes their
committed domestic, sexual, and/or affectional
experiences." Deep female
friendships, often described as "Boston marriages"
in the 19th
century, easily qualify in Faderman's scheme as
"lesbian," for "regardless
of whether these relationships were specifically
sexual, they were also
much more than sexual." Sex or no sex, at the
very least these female
partnerships involved "intense women-to-woman
relating and commitment."
Faderman's strategy, it must be said, is
ingenious. Having admitted that
her various heroes may not have had sexual
relations with women, nor even
considered themselves homosexual, she declares
nonetheless for the sake
of her argument that they are "lesbians," thus
seizing their illustrious
names and accomplishments for the cause of gay
pride. Even if (as it
often turns out in the book) such women were
married to men, even to
several men over the course of their life, so
long as they exhibited
traits of "intense woman-to-woman relating," they
were "lesbian"
pioneers.
So who were these "lesbians"? It will come as no
surprise to students of
the women's-suffrage movement that Susan B.
Anthony meets Faderman's
criteria. Not only did Anthony famously renounce
marriage and encourage
women activists who worked for her not to marry,
but it has long been
known that she often signed letters to other
suffragettes as "your friend
and lover," and that she expressed passionate
feelings for her friend
Anna Dickinson. Faderman has uncovered passages
in these letters that
seem flirtatious, as when Anthony invited
Dickinson to share her
bed (which was, she emphasized, "big enough and
good enough to take you
in") or called Dickinson a "naughty Teaze."
Anthony also once referred to
Emily Gross, a married woman not actively
involved in the suffragist
movement, as "my new lover," and Gross
accompanied Anthony on several
summer trips to California in the mid-1890s (when
the latter was, it
seems apropos to mention, about 75 years old). Of
course, Anthony was a
deeply religious woman who lived according to a
strict Quaker moral code,
a code which frowned on frivolous or
self-indulgent pursuits of any kind
(she once berated a pregnant Elizabeth Cady
Stanton for succumbing to the
lure of "a moment's pleasure to herself or her
husband") but in the
Faderman rulebook, such scattershot evidence of
Anthony's "intense
Woman-to-woman relating" outs the mother of
women's suffrage in America
as a closet lesbian.
Faderman's "outing" of Susan B. Anthony is typical
of the evidentiary
methods deployed throughout the book. Ambitious
women who refuse to
marry (this includes nearly everybody in the
book), women recalling youthful "tomboy"
frustrations about being forced to wear dresses
and play with dolls
(again, nearly everyone), accomplished women who
choose to
live for long periods or travel with younger
female domestic "partners"
(such as Anna Howard Shaw, a disciple of
Anthony's who settled down with
Anthony's niece Lucy), social reformers who
devote their affections to
wealthy female benefactors (most famously, Jane
Addams' relationship with
leading Hull House patron Mary Rozet Smith),
women whose correspondence
with female companions tantalizingly hints at
romantic longing, if not at
active sexual relations — on the basis of such
clues one heroic female
reformer after another is "outed" as a lesbian.
On a few occasions, the
letters cited by Faderman do reveal that the
women in question shared a
bed (this is clear with Addams and Smith); more
often, we have little but
Faderman's assurance that the affection women
expressed for each other was
other than platonic.
Because documentary evidence of sexual activity is
by its very nature
hard to come by, there is inevitably a lot of
innuendo in this book.
It's difficult either to prove, or disprove, that
any of these women
carried on affairs of a sexual nature with other
women. Even if, however,
we give Faderman the benefit of the doubt and
assume that most of the
women in question were not merely emotionally
close to their "partners"
but were in fact closet lesbians, there are
serious problems with this
book's argument.
Faderman, you see, is not merely arguing that many
famous women reformers
happened to be lesbians. She wants us to
believe that lesbianism was
in fact central to their accomplishments. "In
their eras," Faderman
writes, "lesbian arrangements freed these
pioneering women to pursue
education, professions, and civil and social
rights for themselves and
others far more effectively then they could have
if they had lived in
traditional heterosexual arrangements." Such
same-sex "arrangements,"
however defined, provided women in Faderman's
formulation with an "escape
from loneliness while maintaining their 'dreams
of self-realization.'" A
healthy expression of lesbian sexuality, that is,
provided female reform
pioneers with the emotional sustenance they
needed to survive their battle
against gender discrimination.
Thus each of the four sections of this book,
devoted respectively to
(putatively lesbian) suffragettes, social
reformers, educators, and
pioneers in the learned professions, ends with a
"post-1920" chapter when
the achievements of earlier "lesbian" heroes are
all but squandered by
ungrateful straight women. Section I ("How
American Women Got
Enfranchised") ends with Faderman's lament that
within two decades of
the ratification of the Nineteenth Amendment in
1920, more than 90 percent of
married women voted just like their husbands,
cutting short the
lesbian-feminist goal of women as an "autonomous
voting force." Section II
("How America Got a Social Conscience") concludes
with a dark chapter
entitled "Poisoning the Source," where we learn
that the popularization of
sexual psychoanalysis in the 1920s created
"pressures for compulsory
heterosexuality" and widespread "lesbophobia."
Without healthy
lesbianism, Faderman argues, "social conscience
fell out of fashion
between the Great War and the Depression."
Section III ("How American
Women Got Educated") starts off in the same-sex
paradise of
radically-minded, pioneering turn-of-the-century
women's colleges —
"virtually the entire English department at
Wellesley was paired off in
lesbian arrangements," Faderman gleefully
exclaims — before descending
into the co-educational hell of the mid-twentieth
century, when nearly
half of college students were women, most of whom
— gasp! — chose to get
married after they graduated. (This presumably
disagreeable phenomenon
Faderman calls "following the heterosexual
imperative.") Finally, in
Section IV, the demanding professional career
paths first trodden by
pioneering "lesbians" such as Emily Blackwell are
abandoned by women in
the twentieth century in a mad heterosexual "Rush
to Bake the Pies and
Have the Babies" (yes, this is actually the title
of Chapter 17). In case
we have missed the point, Faderman labels as
"doldrum decades" the
half-century between the achievement of women's
suffrage in 1920 and the
return of "lesbian-feminism" in the modern gay
rights movement around
1970.
A mere glance at these sometimes obnoxious section
and chapter titles
might easily lead one to the conclusion that
Lillian Faderman is an angry
feminist, but this is not your average angry
feminist tract. Although no
fan of patriarchy, Faderman's real villains are
not men, but the women
who fall for them. In fact, I'm hard pressed to
recall a single male
character of note in this book. There are a few
obtuse male sexologists;
an assortment of unaccommodating university
administrators; several
extremely distant political leaders who either
appoint, or don't appoint,
lesbians to positions of power; and an array of
unsupportive, absent
husbands who often seem to be hospitalized for
long stretches of time.
If this is all the male world has offered
American women in terms of
erotic attraction, one might understand
Faderman's befuddlement that the
"heterosexual imperative" has been so dominant.
There is a palpable sense
of frustration in her story as educated women
continually refuse to become
lesbians, and more than a little defensiveness.
Don't these women know,
Faderman asks at one point, that homosexuality
"comes naturally to all
mammalians — attraction to members of the species
regardless of gender."
Why can't these women do without men? Faderman
certainly does: As if to
set an example for women lured dangerously
towards male companionship, the
acknowledgments of her book list no less than 21
positive female
influences on her work (versus only four men).
She is herself living
proof of the career-advancement strategy of
"lesbian arrangements." Why
can't these all these ungrateful heterosexual
women, Faderman all but
cries in the autobiographical section of her
conclusion, why oh why can't
they be more like me?
In a way, one feels sorry for Faderman after
reading this book. It's
clear that she would have been much happier
living the life of a
flirtatious woman professor in the golden era of
the radical women-only
colleges, with no men around, instead of being
stuck in the confusing
heterosexual mix of contemporary co-educational
life. Then again, she
obviously has taken pride in her rebellion
against the "heterosexual
imperative." With a contemptuous flair recalling
Hilary Clinton's
notorious disdain for cookies, Faderman at one
point trumpets her own
rejection of social norms: "The feminist mystique
did not have the same
impact on me as it apparently did on girls whose
mothers had three pies
bubbling in the oven." She obviously enjoyed
writing this book, and it's
not hard to see why it has already inspired a
gush-fest among lesbian
reviewers, one of whom confessed to "erudition
envy" after reading it.
Just think, wrote Deborah Peifer in the Bay Area
Reporter in a burst of
pride after learning from Faderman that
lesbianism had won American women
all of their rights and given birth to America's
"social conscience":
"It turns out that not only are we everywhere, we
were everywhere." The
perils of the "heterosexual imperative,"
naturally, remain; but Faderman
has in the meantime given lesbians something to
shout about.
What about the rest of us? What are we to make of
Faderman's admittedly
bold attempt to claim much of the history of
American social reform for
the contemporary gay-pride movement? Should
parents start encouraging
ambitious daughters to embrace the inner lesbian?
If they refuse to do
so, should they be encouraged to abandon thoughts
of achieving great
things in the world — thereby nipping in the bud
years of inevitable
heterosexual "restlessness"? "Mommy," one can
imagine Jane intoning on
National Take-Our-Daughters-to-Work Day, "do I
have to be gay to become a
doctor?"
Because few ordinary people would voluntarily slog
through these 300 plus
pages of soul-deadening prose laden with
theoretical academic jargon, it
is tempting to conclude that Faderman's book will
remain a harmless
exercise in circular lesbian self-congratulation.
But many reasonable
people dismissed Derrida's literary
"deconstruction" as a harmless fad,
and this did not prevent the complete takeover of
dozens of university
English Departments by theory-guzzling weirdoes.
It seems almost
inevitable that History Departments, already
invaded by Foucault-obsessed
"cultural studies" advocates, may now bow down to
the gay and lesbian
studies juggernaut as well, with Lillian Faderman
leading the charge.
Moreover, it seems clear that in this era of
group-think madness,
Faderman represents a larger phenomenon. Already,
fashionable efforts to
"expand historical horizons" have given birth to
a litter of
hyphenated-American studies departments supported
by vigilant political action
groups not above staging hunger strikes to
increase funding levels for
academic courses in ethnic self-celebration; to
newfangled literary canons
dominated by authors chosen on the basis of race,
sex or sexual
orientation; and to the lionization of
questionable victim-auteurs such
as Nobel Laureate Rigoberta Menchu, among other
intellectually dispiriting
developments. Might Faderman's book be followed
by questionable paeans to
the heretofore unacknowledged historical
contributions of promiscuous gay
men? Of transsexuals? Or politically inclined
pot-smokers? As a
vegetarian myself, should I, after Faderman's
logic, write a book
asserting group pride in the achievements of
famous fellow vegetarians —
who, after all, have given the world both
nonviolent resistance (Mahatma
Gandhi) and the Holocaust (Adolf Hitler)?
For my part, I'd like to think that it is still
possible to write history
about complex individuals that does not reduce
them to group categories,
or to signifiers of cultural forces discernible
only to clever late-20th
century American university professors.
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