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by Matt Kaufman
For all the publicity about child-molesting
priests, there's a related story that may have
greater long-term significance. There's a
growing movement among academics to
legitimize pedophilia — or as they prefer to
call it, "intergenerational intimacy." And if they
have their way, future generations will view sex
with children as just another alternative
lifestyle.
One of the apostles of this movement is Judith
Levine, author of a new book (set for
publication in early May) called Harmful to
Minors: The Perils of Protecting Kids from
Sex. Levine says she doesn't favor
molestation or sex in cases when adults have
authority over kids, but that there's such a
thing as "happy consensual sex among kids
under 12," and that "young — even quite young
— people can have a positive [sexual]
experience with an adult." In fact, she calls a
Dutch law that lowers the age of consent to 12
a “good model” for the U.S. As Levine sees it,
America’s problem is that we’re all too uptight,
focusing on approaches like abstinence
instead of affirming experiences like hers.
“When I was a minor, I had sex with an adult,”
she says, and “on balance . . . it was a
perfectly good experience.”
Levine's book, published by the University of
Minnesota Press, drew a lot of fire. But the UM
Press is delighted with it — or at least with the
advance sales generated by the publicity.
They've already ordered a second printing,
and they've made sure that Harmful to
Minors is the first thing you see when you
log on to their Web site. They act downright
proud about it: The Web site positively gushes
over Levine's work, featuring quotes from
reviewers who praise her for "[coming] down
always on the side of trusting not only our kids
and their pleasures but our own."
Ah, “trusting our pleasures.” So that’s what
we’re going to call it now. Can pedophile-pride
parades be far behind?
Maybe not, since as an article in The Washington
Times points out, Levine’s book “is
only the most recent in a series of academic
arguments for ‘consensual’ sex involving
children.”
For example, psychologist John Money of
Johns Hopkins University gave an interview to
the Dutch pedophilia journal Paidika
about “genuine, totally mutual” sex between
boys and men. Harris Mirkin of the University
of Missouri-Kansas City wrote in the
Journal of Homosexuality that “children
are the last bastion of the old sexual morality,”
and griped that boys who have sex with men
“are never considered willing participants,
even if they are hustlers.”
Perhaps the most significant development,
however, is a 1998 article that appeared in an
especially prominent spot, the American
Psychological Association’s Psychological
Bulletin. In it, Temple University’s Bruce
Rind and two other academics argued that
“value-neutral” language such as “adult-child
sex” and “age-discrepant relationships”
should be used to describe a “willing
encounter.” Often, they said, children aren’t
harmed much by the experience, and may
even benefit by it; you see, it can build their
self-esteem by letting them know how much
they’re valued by adults.
Are you grossed out yet?
A lot of people were. Reacting to public
outrage after the article was publicized on
Dr. Laura and denounced in Congress,
the APA apologized and promised to be more
careful about what they published in the future.
There’ve been scholarly rebuttals too.
Psychological Bulletin published a
response to the Rind article which critiqued its
methodology and slammed it for omitting
other relevant data. For example, men who
had sex with adults when they were boys were
more than twice as likely to use illegal drugs,
three times as likely to seek therapy for mental
problems, five times as likely to attempt
suicide.
On one level, I’m glad to see researchers
fighting back against pedophilia. But it’s
troublesome to see there’s a debate at all.
There are some things whose evil should be
so obvious that no debate is necessary. We
wouldn’t be a better society if we sat down for
calm, dispassionate discussions of the
merits of, say, rape. (“Sure,” one side would
argue, “women say ‘no means no,’ but
some of them don’t really mean it.”)
The same is true of sex with children. That’s
why it’s important that we not only reject
pedophilia, but reject it vehemently, with
undisguised disgust.
We modern folk hesitate to display that sort of
disgust, for fear we’ll be considered
“judgmental.” But we’d better recognize
something: If the pro-pedophilia crowd can
simply get recognized as a legitimate side in a
debate — sharing podiums with opponents,
haggling over the fine points of scientific
studies, gradually accustoming people to the
idea that some types of pedophilia
aren’t really so bad — then they’re well on
their way to achieving their goal. As
Newshouse News Service writer Mark
O’Keefe summarizes their view, “it may be
only a matter of time before modern society
accepts adult-child sex, just as it has learned
to accept premarital sex and homosexual
sex.”
That’s a sobering comparison for anyone who
complacently assumes society will never
reach the point of tolerating pedophilia. It’s
also an important reminder of where the roots
of the threat really lie.
Though few people want to face it, the
pro-pedophilia movement is a child of the
same sexual revolution that legitimized first
premarital sex, then homosexuality. For the
first thing the sexual revolution did was to
reject the concept of morality everyone
understood to be rooted in God’s will. Once
we do that, any substitute ethical guidelines
we cobble together can’t hold together for
long. After all, if there’s no God, all moral
concepts are strictly artificial; we may
want to hang on to some, but we really
have no grounds for telling anyone else these
concepts apply universally. And we can be
certain that there’s no rule that some people,
somewhere, won’t break. Ultimately, all
restrictions — gender, age, even consent —
will be swept away by the tide of ever more
twisted lusts.
The point is, the sexual revolution has a
built-in dynamic that will push us further and
further into perversion. So if we don’t want to
see a world where pedophilia is legitimized,
we need to reject a lot more than pedophilia;
we’ll need to reject the sexual revolution itself.
In its place, we need to recover a worldview
based on God. That worldview contains
specifics about God’s design for sexuality —
things that have been well articulated in
various Boundless articles (J.
Budziszewski does it especially well in many
"Office Hours" and "Ask Theophilus"
columns). But the most important thing we
need to know is that God makes the rules; we
don’t.
In the end, the only real alternative is “trusting
our pleasures.” And that's a pretty shabby alternative to
trusting in God.
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