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I was running on the treadmill a few days ago while my kids
played on the floor beside me. Just weeks away from the end of
summer -- and the start of kindergarten for five-year-old
Harrison and preschool for three-year-old Zoe-- I started
crying. Hard. Working to stay on the fast-moving belt, trying to
keep my breathing steady, I kept brushing away the tears that
were streaming down my already sweaty face. Harrison looked
up and said, "Mommy, are you happy sad?"
"Yes, I'm happy-sad," I assured him as I considered the changes
just ahead. I would have two free mornings a week for the first
time in five years. I would finally have time to write, edit and
read -- uninterrupted by the whine of little ones battling for
their way. And I would have quiet. Which would remind me that
my babies aren't babies anymore. It really does feel like just
yesterday that Harrison was newborn, small enough to fit in the
stroller he now uses for storing his toys.
And in many ways, if feels like yesterday that I launched
another of my babies: Boundless. Some of you have likely been
around long enough to remember the start of Boundless, a first
for Focus on the Family. It was the first "webzine," the first
online weekly and the first product specifically for college
students.
Back when we launched, we described Boundless as a place
where trusted mentors gathered to help you navigate the rocky terrain of a college
campus, survive a hostile professor,
develop the subversive courage of chastity, and dream
beyond the classroom.
Nearly eight years later, it's time to take that dreaming to a
whole new level. Starting this week, Boundless is officially
expanding its audience beyond the campus, growing with our
readership through the post-college season through the next
decade of life. Charged with speaking to 18-34 year olds, our
goal is to help you make the most of the single season while
preparing for the one to come.
That means living intentionally -- knowing who God has called
you to be and how to go about becoming that person --
through community, purity and stewardship.
Community. Friends are a vital part of being twenty-
something, especially if you're single. The best of them share
your life story, encourage your progress and bear your burdens.
But they're not enough. You also need input from people who
are older than you; mentors who've already lived through the
season you're in, with lessons and wisdom to pass down. And
don't forget the little ones: your younger siblings, the teens and
toddlers in your church, everyone not yet where you are. Being
exposed to the range of generations gives you perspective; a
context for making sense of where you are in your journey. It
helps to remember that what you're currently going through,
both exhilarating and frustrating, is fleeting; one season out of
many that will comprise your life.
Purity. It's not enough to save your body for your
spouse. The purity God calls us to is complete: mind, body and
soul. That requires a lot of diligence, especially in a culture that
assaults you with sexualized images virtually everywhere you
look. (I can barely buy groceries without struggling to keep my
eyes off the magazines at the checkout aisle.) But for all that
effort, it's worth it to avoid bringing a complicated sexual
history into future relationships. Living purely frees you to hear
God's call on your life, whether to marriage or celibate service,
all the while helping you avoid the pitfalls of our over-
sexualized, entertainment-focused culture.
Stewardship. Finding your purpose begins with a
realistic assessment of what you're good at, what you're
passionate about and who God created you to be. As you begin
to answer these questions, how you spend your time, talents
and resources will make the difference in fulfilling your destiny.
A mix of wise money management, generous giving and service
will keep you out of financial bondage as well as selfish
indulgence.
And it's not just the what that's expanding. It's the
how. In addition to publishing three new articles each
week, we're adding an html E-newsletter (finally!) that will
include links to the new articles, as always, plus mini articles
exclusive to the email. This is a great time to sign up for this free service
if you haven't already, and to use the "forward" feature to invite
your friends and family to join.
That's just what's new this week. We're also working on a host
of new features.
In the coming weeks and months, you'll see a new topical
collection that will make it easier to search through the 1,100
plus articles in our archive. You'll be able to find the best we
have to offer on issues that mean the most to you. Issues like:
college, career, community, faith, finances, family, singles,
society and sex.
We're also looking for resources: books, music and more that
will encourage and equip you. Historically, we've had a few
items available for purchase from the site. Now we're ramping
up with a heartier lineup of stuff, the stuff we like and the stuff you
recommend.
We're also proposing a bi-monthly print version of Boundless,
pod casts and a weekly blog. As always, we're dependent on
you -- the readers -- to give us feedback. Many of you have
shared your ideas with us over the years, ideas about the
design as well as requests for more community elements
including message boards and RSS feeds. Thanks for that.
We’re working hard to make Boundless more responsive to your
needs, both in how it works and what we say. So keep the email
coming.
And keep coming back to Boundless. The fun is just beginning.
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