When I Fear the Future

When I Fear the Future

Jan 05, 2015|Elisabeth Adams

What if my single life is more fruitful than I know?

Depression: When It's Time to Get Help

Depression: When It's Time to Get Help

Dec 29, 2014|Tim Sanford

To know if you're depressed, you first have to know what depression is.

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    Holiday Q&A[22:51]

    Dec 18, 2014 | Hannah Fessler,Martha Krienke,Dakota Sandras and Esau Silva
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On the Gift of Singleness

On the Gift of Singleness

Nov 10, 2014|Barry Danylak

How do we know if we have the spiritual gift of singleness?

A New Model for Living Single

A New Model for Living Single

Jul 21, 2014|Owen Strachan

Be refreshingly honest, pour out your heart to a kind God, build a spiritual family, and live a full-throttle life.

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When God Says "Wait," and Everyone Else Says "What's Wrong?"

When God Says, 'Wait' and Everyone Else Says, 'What's Wrong?'

May 12, 2014|Steve DeWitt

Advice for single men whom God has given the desire for marriage but who have not yet found a wife.

Heart on Hold

Heart on Hold

Apr 21, 2014|Elisabeth Adams

Navigating a series of "almost" relationships can be wearisome. But this inconvenient process may also be the very means God is using to mature you.

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Me, Myself and I

Me, Myself and I

Nov 25, 2013|Felicia Alvarez

If we want a happy marriage in the future, we need to take selfishness seriously now.

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At Last

At Last

Aug 19, 2013|Beth Grabenkort

For all of us, life is about timing — God's, not ours.

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Odd Man Out

Odd Man Out

May 27, 2013|Elisabeth Adams

The pain of being left out as a single young adult is real, but there are practical things you can do to make it better.

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Sanctification in the Season of Singleness

Sanctification in the Season of Singleness

Mar 18, 2013|Carolyn McCulley

Yes, marriage is one way God matures us, and it can be fairly intense. But it is not the only way.

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Men — Who Needs Them?

Sep 19, 2012|Connally Gilliam

In a day when more women can bring home their personal bacon and fry it up in a pan, where does that leave their need for men?

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Seven Myths Single Women Believe

Seven Myths Single Women Believe

As single women cultivate godly attitudes and avoid damaging lies, they allow the Lord to pour out the things He has for them.

The Trouble With Men Is the Same Trouble With Women

Mar 14, 2012|Candice Watters

What do women do that make good, timely marriages less likely?

My Single Identity Baggage

My Single Identity Baggage

On the journey to finding a mate, it's best to travel light.

Undivided Devotion

Feb 22, 2012|Rachel Starr Thomson

What two funerals taught me about singleness and fruitfulness

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Breakup Blues

Dec 03, 2011|Lauren Winner

Going through a breakup can be one of the most difficult things you'll ever experience. Lauren offers some advice and wisdom about the breakup blues.

When Love Ends

Nov 22, 2011|Jackie M. Johnson

Emotional pain won’t just go away if you ignore it; you've got to deal with it.

Don't Waste Your Disappointment

Oct 25, 2011|Elisabeth Adams

Trusting God with a hope denied

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The Stockdale Paradox

Jun 22, 2011|Candice Watters

Keeping an unwavering faith in the midst of a difficult reality

Single While Active

Single While Active

How to wait on the Lord and trust His perfect plan for your life, while taking steps to prepare yourself to be a good wife and mother

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Praying for Your Future Husband

Thirty years old and still praying for a spouse? Here's encouragement as you continue on the journey.

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Called to Singleness

Mar 11, 2011|J. Budziszewski

You asked "What does it mean to be 'called to singleness' for your life? How do you know if you're called to it?" Theo answers.

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The Secret to a Great Valentine's Day

The Secret to a Great Valentine's Day

Feb 11, 2011|Candice Watters

Even if you don't have a significant other, there's still time to make this Valentine's Day the best yet.

One Choice at a Time

Dec 29, 2010|Kimberly Eddy

Every choice makes the next one easier or harder, depending on what we've chosen to do.  

A Season of Celibacy

Oct 15, 2010|Jenny Schroedel

For most people, singleness is a temporary season. I wish I had more actively embraced its gifts before it ended.  

The Things I Won't Be

The Things I Won't Be

Letting go of expectations can be painful but freeing.  

How to Pray for a Husband

Jul 20, 2010|Candice Watters

We're called to pray about everything. So what should prayer for a husband look like?

Step Away From the Pot Pie

Jun 02, 2010|Kimberly Eddy

As a single adult, you have some great opportunities to experiment in the kitchen and enjoy practicing hospitality.

Self-Realization or Self-Gift?

Self-Realization or Self-Gift?

May 21, 2010|David Lapp

Yes, we want to get married eventually — but only after we've experienced the freedom of our 20s and had a chance to get know ourselves better.  

From House to Home: The Art of Dwelling Well

Mar 24, 2010|Jenny Schroedel

It's not so much where you live, but how, that matters.  

Clear Decks

Clear Decks

Dec 31, 2009|Steve Watters

Clutter hinders action and opportunity.

Alone for the Holidays

Alone for the Holidays

The holidays can be a lonely time. For me, they were very lonely.

In the Meantime: What to Do While Waiting on God

In the Meantime: What to Do While Waiting on God

Dec 16, 2009|Carolyn MacInnes

Haven't met your future mate? Getting anxious? Relax; you've got things to do while you wait. Here are eight suggestions for flourishing in The Meantime.

Requiem to My Twenties

Dec 03, 2009|Christina Holder

The years are not lost. They've only been let go.

Real Men Risk Rejection

The Marks of Manhood

Oct 30, 2009|Albert Mohler

When does a boy become a man? (Hint: It’s not your age.) Find out if you have what it takes to be a godly man.

It's Good to Wait

It's Good to Wait

Oct 16, 2009|Candice Watters

In my campaign against intentional delay have I diminished godly waiting?

A Time to Waste

Sep 25, 2009|Elisabeth Adams

If God could waste a perfectly good Messiah on us, why couldn't I waste something on Him?

A Balanced View on Singleness

A Balanced View on Singleness

Sep 12, 2009|Alex Chediak

In community with God's people, singles can discern their calling and (where appropriate) pursue marriage honorably. 

The Little Black Box

Aug 12, 2009|Christina Holder

It had become a box of bitterness.

Thoughts from the Ship of Singleness

Jul 22, 2009|Rachel Starr Thomson

I must admit that my ship of singleness feels a little less even-keel than it used to.

Talking Singleness

Jul 14, 2009|David Barshinger

A candid talk about singleness from a couple who spent most of their lives as singles.

Rejoice With Those

Watching friend after friend find true love can be discouraging, but it can also be an opportunity to shine.

One Single Day

Mar 03, 2009|Elisabeth Adams

As time goes on, it grows more clear to me that while my waiting years are a loss, they are not a waste.

Making It a Merry Christmas

Making it a Merry Christmas

If holidays with your family leave you feeling depressed, it may be time for some new resolutions.

Vessel of Honor

How I serve God in the world has more to do with my heart than my marital status.

Object of My Affection

Object of My Affection

I know the One who should captivate my heart. Why then, am I so easily distracted?

From Loneliness to Solitude

Nov 08, 2007|Jenny Schroedel

Being alone. For some, it's painful. For some, glorious. And for some, it's both.

With Those Who Rejoice

With Those Who Rejoice

Oct 11, 2007|Carolyn McCulley

Your friends' relationships are moving along nicely and you're still painfully single. Even in the midst of such unfulfilled desire it is possible to be thankful.

The Thrill of Hope for Now and Not Yet

Aug 16, 2007|Candice Watters

Three books are mined for truth about singleness and marriage.

The Fruit of Immaturity

May 10, 2007|Alex Chediak

It's time to grow up.

Misguided Compassion

Apr 26, 2007|Candice Watters

Though they might seem compassionate, some singles ministries are actually more of a hindrance.

Caught in a Crush

Jun 15, 2006|Jenny Schroedel

We can see our longings as a bittersweet gift if we can look up from the tangled web of our own desires and see that they point past us, past the other person, to something more infinite.

Single Female Seeking Home Ownership, Part 2

Jun 01, 2006|Candice Watters

Maybe it's not the mortgage that's the problem, but the attitude that sometimes goes with it.

Single Female Seeking Home Ownership, Part 1

Mar 23, 2006|Candice Watters

Of course, for many women, it is a wise financial move to buy rather than rent. But if marriage is your goal, it isn't your only investment option.

Addicted to Adultescence

Feb 16, 2006|Brett Harris

Is extended adolescence a natural and beneficial sign of social evolution? Or is it a symptom of something more ominous festering in our hearts?

Rethinking the Gift of Singleness

Jan 19, 2006|Debbie Maken

Those few who are gifted to forgo marriage for the sake of the kingdom of heaven are to be commended. But maybe we should stop calling singleness itself a gift.

Video Gamers Anonymous: Unplugged from the Matrix

Jun 30, 2005|Thomas Griffin, IV

One gamer has the courage to tell the story of addiction, and how he's broken free.

Leaving Limbo

Jun 16, 2005|Drew Dyck

They say 30 is the new 20. So what do we have to show for all that extra time spent growing up?

Pray Boldly

Pray Boldly

Feb 24, 2005|Candice Watters

Asking God to help you find a mate is a good thing. Here are a few tips for how to pray boldly for marriage.

A Season of Celibacy, Part 2

Nov 18, 2004|Jenny Schroedel

Readers agree — celibacy sounds good in theory. Now for a little practical advice.

Believing in the Dream of Marriage

Nov 04, 2004|Kara Schwab

Why is it some people's path to the altar is just a few footsteps long? Mine felt like a marathon.

A Season of Celibacy, Part 1

Sep 23, 2004|Jenny Schroedel

For most people, singleness is a temporary season. This author wishes she had more actively embraced its gifts before it ended.

Adult Before 30?

Oct 16, 2003|Steve Watters

Some think it takes guys 30 years to become adults. The question is, do you meet these low expectations or exceed them?

Making the Most of the Hungry Years

May 01, 2003|Steve Watters

Dreaming up your future while you snack on ramen noodles.

4 Songs That Sing the Blues (and How to Beat Them)

Feb 06, 2003|Steve Shadrach

Some of the richest, most successful people in the world are lonely. Maybe you are, too. You don’t have to be.

Kayaking to Romance

Sep 12, 2002|Dana Ryan

Dana's lesson: Don't throw yourself overboard trying to find "the right one." Just keep paddling.

Heartbreak Therapy

Feb 08, 2001|Sarah E. Hinlicky

The pain of breaking up kind of makes you long for something better.

Three Romantic Errors

Mar 23, 2000|Sarah E. Hinlicky

Ever feel like you'll never find Mr./Ms. Right? Hinlicky's advice might help.

The Truth About Alcohol

Feb 09, 2000|Clem Boyd

Administrators wring their hands over it. Students shrug their shoulders over it. Maybe it's time to look at the deeper consequences.

Why Men Are Out

Sep 23, 1999|John Thomas

Men are declining says Prof. Tiger. The question remians: Why?

Why Breaking Up Is Hard to Do

Feb 11, 1999|Sarah E. Hinlicky

When romance goes sour, the healing can take a while. Even for a guy.


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