Is it too assertive for a woman to ask a man out?

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Candice Watters

Is it too assertive for a woman to ask a man out?

Jun 12, 2006 |Candice Watters

I am a single woman of 32 years. There is a saved young man in our church who I would like to get to know better. Is it too assertive or unbecoming for me to ask him out for lunch or something?

I've always believed that it was the man who should initiate a date, but is that too old-fashioned in today's world?


I agree with you that, yes, it's too assertive. I think you should stick to what you've always believed. There's a lot about following the Word's way that's old-fashioned in today's world.


Copyright 2006 Candice Watters. All rights reserved.


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