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Get Married: What Women Can Do to Help It Happen
by Candice Watters

This is not a book about making the most of singleness, nor is it a how-to with ten steps to "finding the man of your dreams." Rather, it's a book that encourages single women to live like they plan to get married. It will show you how to embrace Christian community, learn to encourage men and empower women as you work toward your ultimate goal: a God-glorifying marriage.



The single years have always been something of a paradox. People who are starting to take on responsibilities of adulthood also feel entitled to be young and irresponsible. They see their parents' routine and commitments as stifling but envy the perks that go with that lifestyle. They love the freedom of flying solo and still long for someone to share their lives with. MORE

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Friends Beyond Marriage, Part 1 by Suzanne Hadley Gosselin and Melissa Tenpas
Making the transition when one of you gets married can be tricky, but it's totally worth it.


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One Single Day by Elisabeth Adams
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How I serve God in the world has more to do with my heart than my marital status.


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If you feel called to marry, your best bet is likely a marriage-friendly church.