I don’t remember who the date was with. But I clearly remember debriefing with my pastor’s wife afterward. No doubt I told her where we went for dinner and what we talked about. But then she turned to me and asked a question I wasn’t expecting.
“Did you have fun?”
Wait…what? Did I have fun?
When my pastor’s wife asked me that question, I dismissed it as silly. I didn’t need to have fun on dates.