Most people don’t like conflict, and deal with it in different ways. My gut reaction is to avoid it. I don’t like knowing that I’ve hurt someone, and I don’t like confronting my own feelings if I’m the one who’s upset. But facing problems together is important for healthy relationships, and oftentimes doing so requires arguing.
Arguing Is Normal
Arguing isn’t the sign of an unhealthy relationship; it’s the sign of a relationship. Close friends, relatives and couples are going to fight, so it’s a matter of figuring out how to do it healthily.