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And the Bride Wore White
by Dannah Gresh

Best-selling author Dannah Gresh shares the seven most important secrets to sexual purity. She challenges young women to set and maintain high standards, to value their virginity and to make a commitment to Christ for a sexually pure lifestyle.



Sex is everywhere. It's used to sell the most unusual range of products and services. Sensual images and stories inundate our daily lives. Sex promises us one of life's greatest pleasures as well as a taste of transcendence. Yet nearly half a century ago, C.S. Lewis observed that men and women have an "ever-increasing appetite for ever-decreasing pleasure." Despite all the venues available for sexual expression, the deeper fulfillment we crave is growing even more elusive. MORE

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