Joshua Rogers

Joshua Rogers is an attorney and writer who lives in Washington, D.C., with his wife and three children. In addition to writing for Boundless, he has also written for,, Washington Post, Thriving Family, and Inside Journal. His personal blog is You can follow him @MrJoshuaRogers or on his Facebook page.


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When Guys Don't Notice You

Apr 02, 2018|Joshua Rogers

Godly guys care about the beauty of your heart, but you can also put some thought into the way you look on the outside.

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Don't Get Swept Into a Bad Marriage

Jan 01, 2018|Joshua Rogers

Falling in love can make it hard to see obvious dangers that lie ahead.

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Stepping Out of the Shadow of My Parents' Divorce

Oct 02, 2017|Joshua Rogers

My parents' divorce left me terrified of marriage, but God used it to push me in an unexpected direction.

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The Danger in Telling Everyone Our Business

Jul 17, 2017|Joshua Rogers

Saying too much may be hurting you and others more than you think.

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5 Things I Learned From Living With an Incurable Illness

Apr 10, 2017|Joshua Rogers

What I wish someone had told me when I found out I was sick and couldn't do anything to fix it.

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So Grateful God Made Me Wait

Jan 16, 2017|Joshua Rogers

I grieved God's seeming resistance to my repeated requests. I never expected that I would one day be grateful for the wait.

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Healing the Wounds of Segregation in the Church

Sep 26, 2016|Joshua Rogers

Our Father alone, through the power of His Spirit, can use us to bring His black and white children back together.

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3 Things Men Should Know Before Tying the Knot

Jun 06, 2016|Joshua Rogers

All of those lists you've made? It's time to throw them out.

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A Single Man’s Guide to Properly Interacting with Women

Feb 22, 2016|Joshua Rogers

Contrary to popular belief, a lot of the perpetually single men you meet really do want to tie the knot.

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Where Have All the Beautiful Women Gone?

Jul 27, 2015|Joshua Rogers

Desiring beauty isn't the problem – it's the inability to see it.

Is Porn Replacing Men's Desire for Marriage?

Is Porn Killing Men's Desire for Marriage?

Mar 09, 2015|Joshua Rogers

Let's consider the potential damage fantasy sex can do to a man and his hopes to have a wife and children.

Why I Quit Church Services (and Then Came Back)

Why I Quit Church Services (and Then Came Back)

Dec 01, 2014|Joshua Rogers

Going to church on Sunday mornings seemed pointless, until I discovered the family of God at work.

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Man Enough to Be Yourself With Other Men

Jun 16, 2014|Joshua Rogers

If we want to be real men, we'll take the risk of being the real us in front of other guys.

The Reason You're Not Married (Might Be Looking You in the Mirror)

The Reason You're Not Married (Might Be Looking You in the Mirror)

Apr 07, 2014|Joshua Rogers

If you wonder why nobody seems to be the right fit, maybe it's time to ask what you expect in a spouse and how realistically you're assessing yourself.

What I Wish I Had Known Before Marriage

What I Wish Someone Had Told Me Before Marriage

Jan 27, 2014|Joshua Rogers

If I'd known these three things before I married, I would've been much better prepared.

I Got An iPhone Infection

I Got an iPhone Infection

May 06, 2013|Joshua Rogers

My iPhone had grown on me — literally. It was attached to my hand, clinging to me like a localized infection I didn't want to cure.

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How to Win a Woman's Heart

Mar 25, 2013|Joshua Rogers

There was a time during my unmarried years when I was trying so hard to get dating right that I just ended up getting it weird.

Facing Insecurity, Finding Friendship

Facing Insecurity, Finding Friendship

Nov 28, 2012|Joshua Rogers

Discover why self-absorbed insecurity is the enemy of healthy relationships.

When Dating Isn't the Problem

Oct 18, 2012|Joshua Rogers

Things can get really messy when you have relationship issues with both God and the opposite sex.

Held Hostage by Unforgiveness

Held Hostage by Unforgiveness

Jun 20, 2012|Joshua Rogers

It's easy to feel justified in resenting a fallen father.

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The Thrill of Dishonoring My Father

Jun 13, 2012|Joshua Rogers

Validation comes at a high price — but who cares, as long as your parent is footing the bill?

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Your Friendgirl Deserves Better

Jan 11, 2012|Joshua Rogers

If you're one of those guys who is passively encouraging a single woman to waste her time on you when you're not romantically interested, then it's time for one of the most important breakups of your life.

Man Enough to Love a Real Woman

Man Enough to Love a Real Woman

Aug 03, 2011|Joshua Rogers

To the single guys out there who are trying to find the ideal woman, do the world a favor and give up.

My Spiritual Root Canal

My Spiritual Root Canal

Oct 25, 2000|Joshua Rogers

Waking to the sound of 12 boisterous children, suddenly my summer abroad wasn't the romantic picture I had painted.