The Reason You’re Not Married (Might Be Looking You in the Mirror)

If you wonder why nobody seems to be the right fit, maybe it’s time to ask what you expect in a spouse and how realistically you’re assessing yourself.

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May 19, 2022

Advice for Planning a Wedding: Episode 746

56:02 – Our best wedding planning strategies, plus God and technology, and when your friend can’t seem to break up with her boyfriend.

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It’s Time to Finally Do That Thing

It’s easy to think we’ll work on something next week or next month or even tomorrow, but assuming isn’t the same as actually doing. Maybe it’s time to take the first step.

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Average Is Awesome

Most adults live ordinary lives. Why do we tend to doubt, downplay or despise the average story?


3 Ways to Stay Connected With Your Friends Who Have Kids

When a friend gets “two steps” ahead — married with children — it can feel as if the friendship is fizzling. But don’t give up prematurely.

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How Far Is Too Far Before Marriage?

Every woman I ever dated ended up getting married to another man. How awkward would it be for that man to know I had gotten physical with his wife?