Please help us walk on the right road and not disappoint God.
The short answer is no, being engaged is not enough to “make love.” Out of the context of marriage, it’s called illegitimate sex. Thankfully Theophilus has already discussed this question in some detail. You’ll find his answer in the classic article, “More Fallout: Premarital Sex”
This question is a great reminder of why long engagements are such a bad idea. When you’ve found the man you’re going to marry, get married. I was engaged for three months. And I highly recommend short engagements. They greatly aid in a couple’s decision to stay sexually pure before the wedding.
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