Tori Mann

My pets (a dog and a cat) are persistent. They know what they want, and they don’t stop until they get it. Maybe we can learn from them.

The habit of being busy has bled into other aspects of my life. While hospitality does take work, I find myself missing out.

I’m thankful for the differences that led to our breakup because there were other serious issues beneath the surface I realized years later.

I want so much to be a better person. I make efforts to be better, then get exhausted and stop and then go back to worrying and try again. It’s a sad cycle.

After our breakup, we both realized we still cared for each — as friends — so we tried to rebuild our friendship. And we made a lot of mistakes.

This summer I came home — a fresh college graduate — without a job. I had applied and applied and heard nothing back from the majority of companies. Out of 15 to 20 applications, I had only two interviews lined up for when I came home. My embarrassment …

“Have you thanked a soldier today?” I think our Memorial Day traditions often fail to get at the essence of what it means to remember soldiers’ sacrifices for our country. But how do we thank the ones we are remembering?

When I was maybe 10 or 11 years old, I had a conversation with my older sister about whether or not we each wanted to be married when we grew up. I actually thought it might be interesting to not be married, but my sister reminded me that our parents w …