Vance Fry

Have you found a new job yet? Are you dating anyone yet? Did you find a place of your own yet? Do you get these questions at Thanksgiving?

I’ve noticed a theme winding through some of the conversations around these parts: Churches seemed to have dropped the ball when it comes to singles ministry. Consider a few comments from a recent post: My biggest issue has been that the churches I’ve …

My wife recently attended a good friend’s wedding. When she returned, she had several pictures to share and stories to tell, so we spent some time clicking through her photo album. One picture was of the bride’s (ex) singles group from the church she a …

Not long ago, I took my three daughters to see some animated film at a local second-run theater. When the credits began to roll, I started picking up the wreckage of snack remains under our little group of seats. In the row in front of us, a young coup …

What is the bare minimum to be considered spouse material these days? if you had to pick a few theoretical “non-negotiables,” what would they be?

Should a guy pursue a great girl (and in this case a “beautiful” girl) when he is not attracted to her? Will attraction come later?

These letters from guys had something in common: A need to understand why the breakup happened and to know how they can improve in future relationships.

Have you had your first snowfall of the year yet? Here in Colorado Springs, the nearby mountains have been frost-topped for nearly a month now, but I hadn’t seen any snow here in town until a morning last week when a coworker announced — in excitement …