If you’ve been on social media at all this week, you’ve probably seen the article titled “Men Prefer Debt-Free Virgins Without Tattoos.” Thousands of people have shared and commented on it — some angry at what they consider to be legalism on steroids, some defending the writer for taking an unpopular stance on purity. But what do solid Christian guys really “prefer”? More importantly, what does God think about this? Lisa sits down with three men to discuss their take on this article and (as only Lisa can) gets them to admit what qualities they really value in a woman.

Also check out Erica Wilkinson’s open letter to the author.