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“Hi, my name is Dan. Will you go out for coffee with me so I can tell you about my porn addiction?” Let’s hope you’ve never been on the receiving end of that line, but this week’s Inbox addresses the “What do I need to tell?” conundrum in relationships as well as the “And when do I need to tell it?” caveat. Focus counselor Danny Huerta helps us understand when to speak and when (for all our sakes!) not to.