Everywhere she goes, she notices the shiny diamond rings and sleek gold bands on other people’s hands. In return, she feels like judgmental eyes are boring into her for having an empty ring finger. Is she imagining things, or are folks sizing her up and labeling her a spinster? Should she start wearing a purity ring on that hand? But what if someone assumes it’s a wedding ring and doesn’t ask her out because of it? Lisa Anderson offers advice.