It’s the age-old boundaries question, but it’s still worth discussing. Every psychologist will tell you boundaries exist for a purpose, and in dating they’re especially important for your physical, emotional and spiritual well-being. But can you set appropriate boundaries without it devolving into a fear- and shame-based finger-wagging session? Our panel says “yes.” They’ve done boundaries well (and occasionally not so well) and lived to tell about it. From topics of conversation to timing to emotional intimacy to sexual temptation, they offer their best strategies for honoring God in dating while still having plenty of fun.