Diane asked a guy to swing on the park swings; they’ve now been married over 40 years. Laura admitted to her friend at church that she had feelings for him, and it almost backfired. Savannah has a policy that she never, ever makes the first move. What’s the most effective strategy here? How can ladies be available but not pushy? What is “appropriate” flirting, and how do you do it? Our panel gets real about if, when and how women should take the dating reins.