The Boundless Show with Lisa Anderson
November 17, 2011

Can’t Touch This: Episode 198

49:09 – 

Hugging etiquette, plus an interview with psychologist Dr. Dan Allender and a question on fantasizing about married sex. Featured musical artist: Lindsay McCaul


Episode Segments

The Boundless Show: Roundtable Segment
Roundtable Segment

Do You Need a Hug?

16:41 – 

Back pats, bear hugs, hugs with a kiss, the A-frame, the side hug, opposite-sex-either-married-or-single hugs — how do you navigate the world of hugging? What’s encouraging, what’s annoying, and what’s downright inappropriate? Our panel, ranging from the hug-challenged to the effusively affectionate, weighs in.

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The Boundless Show: Culture Segment
Culture Segment

Initmate Allies

Guests: Dr. Dan Allender,

24:32 – 

Dr. Dan Allender, psychologist and author of books like Intimate Allies and The Healing Path, joins me to talk about why singles are missing out on marriage, what married couples in counseling actually say, and the three non-negotiables couples need to tie the knot. If you’ve ever heard Dan Allender, you know he doesn’t mince words. He certainly doesn’t here, so fasten your seatbelt.

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The Boundless Show: Inbox Segment
Inbox Segment

Married Sex Fantasy

Guests: Joann Condie,

4:51 – 

She’s says she’s soon to be engaged to a great guy, and as they move toward marriage, she’s anticipating what it will be like. Including the sex. Now she wonders if that’s the same as lusting after her future husband. Focus counselor Joann Condie answers with grace and reason.

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