As our listener Natasha pointed out, making friends in our 20s and 30s can be tough. It seems like everyone is in different life stages, and too engaged in work or family to be readily available. Our panel knows exactly how you feel: Jake once got turned down by a mentor, Kathryn threw a lame party, and Matt moved across the country away from all his friends. So what’s the key to moving past failure and making good friends? We share what’s worked for us.