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You Are Worth So Much More

“You’re worth it.”

The statement came at the end of a commercial for make-up. Make-up. I rolled my eyes. The intensity of the statement didn’t seem to match the triviality of the product. (It actually turns out there’s a whole story behind how L’Oreal came up with the slogan in 1973 and its connections to feminism and the human psyche.)

In recent years, the message of “you’re worth it” has become prevalent in advocating all kinds of experiences and products — posh vacations, luxury cars and weight-loss programs, just to name a few.

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The Only Way to Be Sexually Pure

When I was a teenager and my mother would complain about my bad grades or foul mouth, I would say, “Mom, I don’t drink, smoke, do drugs, or have sex — what more could you want?”

I was especially proud of the fact that I wasn’t having sex, which is probably odd for a teenage boy. But I was a religious teenager, and among many evangelicals, virginity was one of the primary reference points of holiness for the single individual.

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Et Cetera: Debt Questions, Hazardous Clichés, Church Membership

Welcome to Et Cetera, where we feature some of our favorite internet content for the week. If you’d like to recommend that we feature something (even if it’s your content), tweet us a link@BoundlessTeam and let us know. We’ll take a look, and we might feature it. In the meantime, check out this awesome stuff.

First up, a blog post from one of my favorite Christian thinkers, Randy Alcorn. Check out 11 Questions to Ask Ourselves About Debt.

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Here’s What Love Looks Like After 50 Years

With the rise of the Millennial comes the rise of the extended single life. Most of us won’t marry until at least age 27, studies show, and 25 percent will never marry at all, according to a Pew research study.

Maybe that’s because we love our individualism and sense of freedom, or we want to wait until we are “ready.” Regardless, I think by prolonging marriage, we may miss out on something that my grandparents learned: the beauty of long-lasting commitment and love over nearly 50 years.

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Getting Ahead: Episode 418

Listen to this week’s show!

Question to Discuss: What’s your opinion on Christians pursuing bigger and better jobs?

Roundtable: Holy Ambition

Balancing godly ambition with selfish desire can be quite tricky in today’s work environment. How can you tell if you’re trying to reach your God-given potential or simply running after prestige and a bigger paycheck? A panel of employed millennials wrestles through the issue with candor and self-examination.

Culture: Thoughts on the Spirit

The Holy Spirit can sometimes be described as the “forgotten third” of the Trinity.

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4 Ways to Jump-start Your Year

In my recent post titled , I cautioned against setting and striving for unrealistic and unbiblical goals, arguing that they set us up for failure, frustration and even self-righteousness.

But that doesn’t mean all goals are bad. So in the spirit of attempting new things without fearing immediate failure, here are four broad ideas for giving your year a little boost:

1. Quit something. Author and humanitarian Bob Goff may have the corner on this one.

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3 Ways to Stay Connected With Your Friends Who Have Kids

The other day, I was talking to a single woman who was lamenting the distance she felt between herself and a close college friend, who was married. “Marriage changed things,” she said. “But since she’s had a baby, it’s a whole other ballgame.”

As a single person, I noticed the same thing. My single friends who got married (or who were even seriously dating) seemed less available, but the married friends who had kids … well, sometimes I felt as if I might as well wish them a good life and bid them adieu.

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Five Questions with CBS Sports’ Kyle Porter

Kyle Porter may have started his career in the insurance business, but his heart was in sports. So in his spare time, he started his own college sports blog. After that, he made a few connections, and eventually, it led to his job as a golf writer for CBS Sports.

At 30 years old, his career was blossoming; he had been happily married for five years; and he and his wife, Jen, were expecting their third child.

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Et Cetera: Praying for Politicians, Inviting People to Church, Gotta Serve Somebody

Welcome to Et Cetera, where we feature some of our favorite internet content for the week. If you’d like to recommend that we feature something (even if it’s your content), tweet us a link @BoundlessTeam and let us know. We’ll take a look, and we might feature it. In the meantime, check out this awesome stuff.

First up, a ministry called Open Doors published an updated list of the top 50 countries it’s hardest to be a Christian in.

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An Older Virgin in a Sex-crazed World

I’ll never forget the conversation I had with another student in Algebra II my sophomore year of high school. I don’t know what brought up the subject, but it was awkward to be discussing such a thing while working out problems on chunky graphing calculators. But my friend was grilling me on being a virgin. I assured her I would be a virgin until I married.

“What if you don’t get married until you’re much older?” she asked in shock, though she knew my adherence to God’s Word is what compelled such a decision.